We all have friends that show concern for us when we go through difficult situations. And that can be a good thing… at times. Many times when we go through a difficult relationship; there are usually several kinds of people that try and console us. We have the people who gives us angry advice towards the other person. We have the people who cries with us and tell us they can’t believe it. And then we have the ones that tell us, “forget that person, I never liked them in the first place.”
A lost of any kind can be very devastating. Either a husband, wife, child, parent, sibling or even a close friend, or family member.
When we go through difficult situations, their are many thoughts that go through our minds. We go through the different stages of lost and many people expect that. But there is a point when we have to move on. When someone is “trapped” in mourning, it is very dangerous. The longer we stay in mourning the easier it is to get into despair. There is no set in stone time frame for mourning, but I can say, we have to take it to God in prayer.
Psalms 55:22 (KJV). ” Cast thy burdens upon the Lord, and he shall sustain thee: he shall never suffer the righteous to be moved.”
1 Peter 5:7 (KJV). ” Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you.”
I have been in several situations of lost: including relationship and family. For me, they were different in many ways. With the lost of my previous relationship, it was relatively easy to get over. But with the lost of my child, it was a little more trying and eventually I healed. Every time a thought of hurt and despair came up in my mind; I would take it to God in prayer. I would not try and “sugar coat” my talk with Jesus. I would tell him exactly how I felt and how hurt I was. Jesus knows what’s in your heart. Don’t lie to him. When I started moving on; people would come and try to restart the whole mourning process all over again. I am telling you women. Do not entertain the pity party because it only will set you back. Trust Jesus Christ because he did it for me. Now, when I see pictures of my baby girl, I cry with joy because I am excited to see her again in Heaven. I am happy thinking of it now. Think about it women, your babies and Jesus. WOW!
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